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Psychic Energy Vampires
I've continuously used the phrase "psychic vampire," or "energy vampire" to describe an individual who extracts energy from others so as to survive in their world. We have now all heard of vampires, who feed on the blood of others. The psychic vampire feeds on the energy of others. Nevertheless it will not be normally a acutely aware endeavor.
Narcissistic action is really an "unconscious" behavior. The perpetrator isn't normally aware of how his actions are affecting others. Quite the opposite, the perpetrator usually feels he's the one being victimized. Narcissistic people are usually energy vampires.
How does one know when his/her energy is being harvested? It's really quite simple. Just be aware of how you're feeling round totally different people. Start making mental notes. Some individuals will leave you feeling glad, energized, or nurtured. Others will depart you feeling drained, tired, depressed, indignant or confused in some way.
If the person who leaves you feeling tired and drained has this affect on you most of the time than they're likely an energy vampire. You could enter the interplay or conversation feeling good about something and through the course of the conversation you're reworked into feeling bad. For instance: Say you just got a big promotion at work and you might be really excited. You go home from work and you might be high with excitement and share the great news with your partner. He listens to you talk about your promotion and then says something like "Good for you! Hey did you take my blue water bottle this morning?"
O.K. his words weren't clearly cruel or condemning. He even said "good for you!" However somehow you feel that you have not been heard and that he doesn't really share in your excitement. In actual fact it appears more that he might care less. You're feeling a plummet in your energy and out of the blue you aren't feeling very excited anymore. Chances are you'll reply by saying "No I have never seen your blue bottle!" And...he goes on to deal with the bottle asking you if you are sure you did not take it because you've gotten a habit of taking his stuff, etc.
The celebration of your promotion at work was cut very short. In fact if you wish to celebrate in any respect you will need to call a good friend who really cares about you and your good news. However by now you could not really feel a lot like celebrating. It's possible you'll feel that your promotion really is not that big of a deal after all. Especially since the particular person closest to you doesn't seem to think it is.
Whenever you really feel a sudden plummet of your energy whether from a good friend, an acquaintance, a co-worker or a partner or partner, you could be dealing with a psychic energy vampire.
A psychic vampire just isn't essentially a psychic individual however somewhat someone who preys on the psychic energy area round a person.
I am very sensitive and read energy quite easily now. But up to now, I did not know sufficient about this sensitivity to be able to interpret what was happening with me and why I often felt drained when round a lot of people, or sure people especially. Now I am pretty aware of what's going on round me and know when to depart a room or a situation.
I meet a variety of psychic vampires who seem like just regular folks going about their business. But here's what I notice. These type of individuals seem to want something from me. I discover the conversations are typically one sided where they're doing all the talking and I'm doing all the listening. There isn't a true interaction. If I try to relate or share something about myself pertaining to the conversation, I feel as if I'm not at all heard. My contribution is passed up as they continue their dialog as if I have not said a word.
After I ask myself what the intention of these individuals may be I see they are looking for admiration, approval, positive feedback, are trying to sell me something or get me to imagine something. If I start to feel irritated, drained, or tired, I instantly excuse myself and go away the conversation.
In healthy relationships we feed every other. We share energy. Certainly one of us could be feeling down and the opposite can encourage us and say things to assist us which can deliver us up. Other times we're those serving to and encouraging the other. It is a give and take energy change that is mutually beneficial. However with energy vampires, there isn't a give and take, only take. They don't have any energy of their own reserves to give.
A psychic vampire or energy vampire is an emotionally and spiritually depleted individual. He doesn't have an interior life and is not spiritually connected to life. He has spent his life extracting energy from the outside instead of learning methods to go within and cultivate his own interior garden.
Think of the human body and its want for vitamins and minerals. Our bodies have the ability to manufacture most of what we'd like from within if given the right nutrients and building blocks. But let's say a person eats nothing however junk food after which takes lots of vitamins. He is relying on this exterior substance to feed him instead of feeding his body healthy substances that build his body on a cellular level. If he actually wanted to be healthy he would be taught that he wanted to cleanse out all the toxins which were accumulating from years of bad consuming and then start taking in high nutrient dense foods to rebuild his body.
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