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Psychic Energy Vampires
I have steadily used the phrase "psychic vampire," or "energy vampire" to describe a person who extracts energy from others as a way to survive of their world. We have all heard of vampires, who feed on the blood of others. The psychic vampire feeds on the energy of others. However it just isn't normally a conscious endeavor.
Narcissistic action is really an "unconscious" behavior. The perpetrator is not normally aware of how his actions are affecting others. On the contrary, the perpetrator often feels he's the one being victimized. Narcissistic persons are normally energy vampires.
How does one know when his/her energy is being harvested? It is really quite simple. Just be aware of how you're feeling round completely different people. Start making mental notes. Some folks will go away you feeling happy, energized, or nurtured. Others will leave you feeling drained, tired, depressed, indignant or confused in some way.
If the one that leaves you feeling tired and drained has this affect on you most of the time than they're likely an energy vampire. You may enter the interplay or conversation feeling good about something and during the course of the dialog you might be transformed into feeling bad. For example: Say you just got a big promotion at work and you might be really excited. You go home from work and you're high with excitement and share the good news with your partner. He listens to you talk about your promotion after which says something like "Good for you! Hey did you take my blue water bottle this morning?"
O.K. his words weren't clearly merciless or condemning. He even said "good for you!" However one way or the other you feel that you haven't been heard and that he doesn't really share in your excitement. In actual fact it appears more that he might care less. You are feeling a plummet in your energy and out of the blue you are not feeling very excited anymore. Chances are you'll reply by saying "No I have never seen your blue bottle!" And...he goes on to focus on the bottle asking you if you're certain you did not take it because you've a habit of taking his stuff, etc.
The celebration of your promotion at work was cut very short. In truth if you wish to celebrate at all you will want to call a friend who actually cares about you and your good news. However by now you might not really feel much like celebrating. It's possible you'll feel that your promotion really isn't that big of a deal after all. Particularly since the particular person closest to you doesn't seem to think it is.
Whenever you feel a sudden plummet of your energy whether or not from a friend, an acquaintance, a co-worker or a partner or partner, you may be dealing with a psychic energy vampire.
A psychic vampire just isn't necessarily a psychic particular person but rather someone who preys on the psychic energy field around a person.
I'm very sensitive and read energy quite easily now. However up to now, I didn't know sufficient about this sensitivity to be able to interpret what was happening with me and why I often felt drained when round a lot of people, or sure folks especially. Now I am fairly aware of what's going on around me and know when to go away a room or a situation.
I meet a lot of psychic vampires who appear to be just normal people going about their business. But here's what I notice. These type of individuals seem to want something from me. I notice the conversations are typically one sided where they're doing all the talking and I am doing all the listening. There is no such thing as a true interaction. If I attempt to relate or share something about myself pertaining to the dialog, I feel as if I'm not in any respect heard. My contribution is passed up as they proceed their conversation as if I have never said a word.
Once I ask myself what the intention of these individuals may be I see they are looking for admiration, approval, positive feedback, are attempting to sell me something or get me to believe something. If I begin to feel irritated, drained, or tired, I instantly excuse myself and depart the conversation.
In healthy relationships we feed each other. We share energy. One in all us might be feeling down and the opposite can encourage us and say things to support us which can deliver us up. Other times we are those serving to and encouraging the other. It's a give and take energy alternate that's mutually beneficial. However with energy vampires, there is no give and take, only take. They have no energy in their own reserves to give.
A psychic vampire or energy vampire is an emotionally and spiritually depleted individual. He does not have an interior life and is not spiritually connected to life. He has spent his life extracting energy from the outside instead of learning easy methods to go within and cultivate his own inside garden.
Think of the human body and its need for vitamins and minerals. Our bodies have the ability to manufacture most of what we'd like from within if given the fitting vitamins and building blocks. However to illustrate an individual eats nothing however junk meals after which takes a variety of vitamins. He is relying on this external substance to feed him instead of feeding his body healthy substances that build his body on a mobile level. If he really wanted to be healthy he would be taught that he wanted to cleanse out all of the toxins which were accumulating from years of bad consuming after which start taking in high nutrient dense foods to rebuild his body.
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